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September 23, 2023

8 Factors That Affect Your Body Image And How To Fix Them

Updated on October 15th, 2025

AD | When you look into the mirror, do you like what you see? Do all your imperfections and flaws only add to your beauty, or do you feel uncomfortable in your skin? If you answered negatively to these questions, it is safe to say that you do not have a positive body image and self-esteem. The issue of negative body image is not new or uncommon. According to research, body image issues are a common phenomenon in women, with statistics showing that 20 to 40% of women are unhappy with their bodies. A positive body image is important as it increases your self-esteem, promotes self-love, and encourages healthy practices. Unfortunately, several factors can negatively affect your body image and self-esteem— and it is important to be aware of them! Here are some factors that negatively affect your body image. 

#1 Peers

Two peers smiling and holding onto each other

More often than not, your peers including your work colleagues, friends, and romantic partners, play a vital role in how you see your body. This can occur in several ways. A common way is how and what they say to you. Imagine being teased about various aspects of your body, such as your lips, nose, or even weight. This would not make you feel good about yourself, would it?

Additionally, your peers can pressure you to change how you see your body. For instance, if your peers are engaging in and encouraging unhealthy eating habits to look slimmer, you may feel pressured to join to avoid being left out. Likewise, if the peers in your social circle look the same, you would pressured to try to look the same to fit in. All these factors negatively affect how you view yourself. Therefore, you should surround yourself with people who speak kindly to you, highlighting the great things about yourself and never making you feel lonely about the way you look. The right peers would love you just the way you are. 

#2 Past Experiences 

Your past experiences are a part of who you are. When it comes to body image, your past experiences are a factor that can make or break how you view yourself. Experiences of being teased, bullied, and rejected often leave you looking at your body in a negative light. For others, the experience of being involved in activities, such as dancing and gymnastics, that tried to dictate how they should look can also cause them to look down on themselves.

Instead of dwelling on these past experiences, it is important to use these experiences as a reflective tool of how far you have come and how much your body has overcome. By reflecting on your past experiences, it helps you take into account your source of negative body image and puts you on the path to resolving it effectively. It can also help you better bust old habits engrained in your behavior, such as heading to alcohol rehab to find healthier ways of coping.

#3 Being Praised for Your Body

It feels good to be appreciated for your body. However, one of the reasons you may negatively view your body is the praise you once received for your body. Your body changes throughout your life, and these changes can cause you to lose the features that gave you praise before. You may also begin to develop the fear of being rejected or judged by those who once praised you.

On the other hand, you may also feel pressured to maintain your body’s appearance to keep the praise coming. However, it does very little to make you feel better about yourself. Instead, it throws further dislike onto yourself, leaving you to push yourself beyond your limits. It is important to remember that although receiving compliments and praise from others about your body is nice, your opinion of yourself is what matters. Therefore, make healthy and safe changes for yourself and not for the attention of others. Whether it is through consistent exercise, balanced nutrition, or incorporating supportive supplements like Body Science pure creatine, prioritizing your well-being on your own terms is sure to improve your body image significantly. 

#4 Unhealthy Eating Habits

Another common factor that affects your body image is your eating habits. Eating balanced meals with essential minerals and nutrients will most likely make you feel good. However, if you tend to eat and drink junk food, sugary beverages, and alcohol, the opposite can occur. Unhealthy dieting can also affect your body image negatively, and the practices can negatively impact your mental health and lead to depression and anxiety.

Moreover, unhealthy eating practices and habits can lead to more problems. Eating disorders are a common issue that can arise when trying to follow unrealistic and unhealthy diets. This can further corrupt your body image, negatively affect your mental health, and cause severe illnesses. Make the effort to watch what you eat to ensure you feel good and healthy in your body. You can consider contacting a dietician for advice and to ensure you eat nutritious foods. 

#5 The Media

A table that has an issue of Vogue magazine and makeup brushes and tools on it. The media is one factor that can affect body iamge.

Everywhere you turn, there are poster boards, billboards, TV shows, and magazines showcasing almost perfect people. This has further increased due to the introduction of social media platforms such as Facebook and Instagram. The media has a pivotal role in how you feel about yourself. On the one hand, through social media platforms, TV shows, and magazines, the media try to dictate the trends and often make you feel left out for not participating in them. Additionally, these platforms are filled with unrealistic and edited images of people’s bodies, making them look breathtakingly perfect. Such images make you question yourself and view your body negatively. 

Instead of succumbing to the beauty standards of the media, you should move to the beat of your own drum. Take various steps to ensure you are happy with your self-image. For instance, you can join a gym to help you get fit. Or if you have some wrinkles that make you feel slightly self-conscious, then consider visiting a local Botox injection expert to help you feel good in your skin to boost your self-esteem. These actions will help you view your body in a positive light.

#6 Family Values and Attributes

Another factor that could affect your body image is the values and attributes of your family. Your upbringing is one subset of this. If you were teased and criticized for your weight, you may also look down on yourself. In some cases, the way your parents speak to you on such matters can be too harsh, even at an earlier age. Their opinions can be hurtful, cutting you down emotionally and negatively affecting your body image. In other cases, your genetics may have contributed to giving you various features you are unhappy with, further affecting your body image. However, there is very little you can do to alter your genetics. Therefore, embrace these attributes— view them as what makes you unique.

As parents, it is important to speak kindly to your children. Practice empathy when talking to them about various sensitive topics, such as their weight. Doing this would help you explore better means of communicating your concerns to your child without damaging their ego or making them feel less of themselves. You should also practice positive body image for your children to learn and do the same. 

#7 Athletes and Sports Industry

If you are in the sports industry, you are no stranger to its strict demands, such as precise weight, height, and other features that must be considered. Although it may seem like a simple set of rules, this can have a negative impact on how you view your body. For example, suppose you wanted to join the gymnastics team. Then, in that case, your weight may be a subject of discussion to determine if you can be a part of a team. Such pressure can be uncomfortable and make you look at your body in a different light.

Another aspect of the sports industry that affects your body image is your coach. Your coach plays an advisory role. However, in evaluating your performance, some coaches may speak down on you and refer to various insecurities you may have, such as your weight. Therefore, if you are in the sports industry, it is important to understand these issues and be ready to face them head-on.  

#8 Low Self-Esteem and Self-Love

A woman sitting in a chair and looking at yourself in the mirror and smiling

Your self-esteem and self-love rate greatly affect how you feel about your body. Self-esteem gives you the tough skin to withstand negative words and other factors that deter you from being happy in your skin. It also helps you withstand envy and the natural desire to compare yourself to others. Self-love also ensures that you are looking out for yourself and ensuring that your opinions about your body matter and are what you care about. Therefore, low self-esteem and self-love can significantly affect your body image, causing you to feel less about yourself and easily influenced by the many negative factors around you. To combat low self-esteem, you should be kind to yourself and recognize the things that you are good at.


How do you overcome issues with body image?

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Comments

  1. Laura says

    September 26, 2023 at 11:57 pm

    Great post! I suffered from body dysmorphia years back. I blame growing up with the ever-unforgiving 2000s fashion, plus other factors. Thank for raising awareness.

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    • talesofbelle says

      September 29, 2023 at 12:32 pm

      Thank you! I’m sorry to hear you suffered from body dysmorphia

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  2. Niamh Marron says

    September 23, 2023 at 7:52 pm

    This is a thought-provoking and insightful post that delves into the complex issue of body image and the various factors that can negatively affect it. It’s crucial to address these factors and promote a healthy body image to foster self-esteem, self-love, and overall well-being.

    The points you’ve raised about the influence of peers, past experiences, and the media on body image are particularly noteworthy. The pressure to conform to societal standards and the unrealistic portrayal of beauty in the media can indeed take a toll on how individuals perceive themselves. Your emphasis on self-acceptance and making changes for one’s well-being rather than external validation is a powerful message.

    Additionally, the impact of family values and attributes, especially on children, highlights the importance of fostering a positive environment at home. Parents play a pivotal role in shaping their child’s self-esteem and body image, and your advice on speaking kindly and practicing positive body image is valuable.

    Overall, your post not only identifies the negative factors but also encourages readers to reflect on how to overcome issues with body image. It’s a reminder that self-love, self-acceptance, and surrounding oneself with positive influences are essential steps toward a healthier body image.

    Thank you for addressing this important topic and providing insights on how to promote a positive body image. 💕🌟

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    • talesofbelle says

      September 29, 2023 at 12:31 pm

      Thank you so much for your comment!

      Reply
  3. Corinne says

    September 23, 2023 at 4:23 pm

    I’ve got one to add – keeping clothes that no longer fit you! Time to bin them as they are a bad omen.

    Corinne x
    https://skinnedcartree.com

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    • talesofbelle says

      September 29, 2023 at 12:30 pm

      I completely agree! I recently went through my clothes and donating the clothing that no longer fits.

      Reply

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