Collaborative Post | What does a woman need to know about an older man before she stops treating the relationship as casual? His temperament and habits become visible within a few months without any special effort on her part. The harder questions concern timing, because a gap of 10 or 15 years means two people reach the same decisions about children, health, and work at different ages. At 35 and 45 the difference is small in daily life, but at 65 and 75 one partner may still be working while the other needs care. Those questions are easiest to ask before either person has built plans around the other.
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